A 28-year-old woman narrated her ordeal on a popular women forum on Facebook- Kilimani Mums- that she is stuck on making decision on who among her four lovers, she should keep.

The woman currently lives with her 35-year-old baby daddy.  The man, she says, has refused to make a move on whether he wants to marry her or not.

The current husband, she wrote,  is very good in bed and is a great dad. His only speck is his knack for drinking till 7.am.

He also does not provide enough for his family unless he is pushed to do it.

The 28-year-old mother of one is also seeing a 45-year-old married man. He has good sex but incomparable to her baby daddy. Sometimes he pays her bills and is always there for her, for sober advice and intelligent conversations.

Her third lover is a 30-year -old toy boy, or an older Ben 10 as she calls him.  He gives her average sex. Nothing to write home about. He is however, a good friend  and knows how to say all the right things.

He lives close to the woman’s house and is always available for a quick episode of bumping uglies.

His only issue is that he is broke and keeps borrowing money from the woman and making demands for gifts.

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